Maria's Space

Tuesday, January 07, 2025

Blogging Into 2025

 Is blogging worth it anymore? This question has been featured on a few sites lately. I don't know but I guess that depends on what you are blogging for. 

I started this blog many years ago when my now almost 20 and 22 year old kids were babies. My mom died when I was 12 and I never knew her as a person. I really just wanted to write so they would know who I was. What I thought, how I felt about them. I had about 25K posts until I sat down October, November and December of 2024 and took off a lot of the filler posts. There is no way my kids would ever want to scroll through that many posts. I kept the ones that were more personal, most of my review posts as well as some that I have been paid to post.

Blogging for me is simply about putting down something my kids can read if they ever choose to in the future. Over the past 4 years I really got into Journaling so the blog took a back seat while I figured all that out and I love it!

Now I am just trying to figure out what I really want to talk about on here. Maybe I will just be really personal. Maybe I will just do a photo blog or maybe it will just be a combination as it has always been.

How about you? Do you journal or blog?

Searchlight Pictures’ A REAL PAIN Makes Its Streaming Debut on Hulu on Jan. 16

 

Nominated for 4 Golden Globes Awards® and Winner for Best Performance

by a Male Actor in a Supporting Role for Kieran Culkin

 



BURBANK, CA (Jan 7, 2025) – With its distinct style of storytelling and thought-provoking emotional journey about complex relationships, Jesse Eisenberg and Kieran Culkin give moving performances in A Real Pain, making its streaming debut on Hulu on Jan. 16.

Delving into the universal themes of cultural heritage, acceptance and family relationships while set against the scenic backdrop of Poland, A Real Pain has been lauded by audiences and critics alike. The film was nominated for 4 Golden Globe Awards® including Best Picture, Best Actor Jesse Eisenberg, Best Screenplay and won the Best Performance by a male actor in a supporting role for Kieran Culkin. Additionally, the film won the Waldo Salt Screenwriting Award at last year’s Sundance Film Festival and was named one of AFI’s Top 10 Movies of 2024.

Searchlight Pictures’ A Real Pain is Certified-Fresh on Rotten Tomatoes™ and praised by reviewers as “a masterpiece” (Taylor Gates, Collider) and “a delightful, funny and beautiful odyssey” (Owen Gleiberman, Variety). Audiences can get Searchlight Pictures’ A Real Pain when the film arrives on Hulu and Hulu on Disney+ for Bundle subscribers on Jan. 16.

 

Film Synopsis

Mismatched cousins, David and Benji, reunite for a tour through Poland to honor their beloved grandmother. The adventure takes a turn when the pair's old tensions resurface against the backdrop of their family history.

Christmas Day RoundUp

 Christmas was amazing and I loved all my gifts. 

My son bought everyone gifts this year. Two each! So sweet. My daughter made me something as she aways does and it was as heartfelt as ever and my husband actually got something for the kids from him which has hasn't done since they were toddlers. Oh my heart was full.


1:30 AM Christmas Morning! Instead of my husband and I running gifts upstairs while the kids slept, my son helped me. This was monumental because as a 21 year old Autistic it was only 2 years ago he found out who provides the magic and I think last year he was on the fence even though he knew. He was hopeful. I loved having him help with the stockings and placing the gifts.




Christmas morning! There is JUST something about the pictures of our tree decorated and all the presents under it. The gifts have changed over the years. There are less. They are much smaller. The four of us get for each other instead of just mom and dad providing and we have decorated empties for the days before and after Christmas. 


This guy had the best Christmas. He was having an 80s theme Christmas and wanted to feel like a kid again. He bought and had me wrap a few games for him.


My daughter's gift always makes me smile. It was a decorated box with a Safe Travel Pouch for my new job. I love to drive and as a bus monitor and not in charge of driving she knows I get anxious. I LOVED it. She also made me a cross necklace. BUT this box!!! Perfection.


 So beautiful


My kids do not like their pictures taken so none of them are of them looking but I will always take their picture. WHAT DO THEY KNOW?! One day they will want these.


It was a great day.
My husband got me cast iron pans which I never asked for but he has always wanted. They are pretty nice! He also got me the scent of my favorite hotel, some journaling supplies and a hat, scarf and mitten set for my new job which in the morning is very cold!

My son got me journaling supplies and a winter "ugly" sweater. He has one I got him from last year and wanted me to have one too for my "cold" job. One problem. The sweater isn't ugly at all. He did a great job picking it out. It is nice and my husband likes it. "I wouldn't call this  ugly at all"


Everyone was happy with their gifts and there was only 2 items of clothes that needed to be returned but one seller told me to not bother and refunded the money.

Perfect Christmas with my favorite people.


Monday, January 06, 2025

Christmas 2024 Round - Up


˜”*°•.˜”*°• Christmas was great! •°*”˜.•°*”˜

We spent Christmas Eve with my in-laws for the first time in 17 years. We usually go after Christmas but this year we went on the eve which was so nice! We stopped years ago because they tend to wait until midnight to open gifts and as a mom with two young kids. Didn't like having two overtired babies wait until midnight, drive 50 minutes back home and then get two sleeping children hopefully into their beds, put presents under the tree praying they wouldn't wake and try to get a few hours in before they woke to open their presents "from Santa".

PLUS they didn't get to do my tradition which was leaving cookies and milk for Santa, putting reindeer food outside, listening to a Christmas story or watching a Christmas movie and going to bed excited for Santa. I felt like that Christmas magic was being missed and I really wanted it for them. It is such a short lived moment in their childhood but the memories last forever. 

While one of my sister-in-laws was really annoyed when I told her that very first missed Christmas that she didn't understand "my tradition" because Christmas was about being together with all the kids and how important her families tradition was, I felt my families tradition was just as important but the kids enjoyed opening their gifts after a good night's sleep, weren't overtired and crying and then forced to go to bed instead of playing with their gifts. We usually went the day after Christmas to my in-laws because I found it wrong to have my kids open gifts then leave them to get in the car to drive out on Christmas Day.

People are different and I get it that not everything works for everyone but my husband was in agreement and I would never change my kids' Christmases. They were so much fun.

But....now they are older and Christmas Eve at my in-laws was really nice. We ate, played Uno, Facetimed my niece in CA and opened gifts earlier than they usually do which we really appreciated. 

I LOVED it!











I hope everyone had a great Christmas. What was your favorite part?



Semi-Homemade Cinnamon Rolls Are OMG GOOD!

 



Like the rest of the world who spend time on various socials while on their phone I do too. My poison is Instagram and Facebook which is where I found the recipe for these cinnamon rolls.

Found the video for these on Craig Clark's Facebook and saved it for Christmas morning. Here is Craig reacting to someone making them. How could I not try them? 

My family loved them and I am craving them right now. 



🍫  🎀  𝐼𝓃𝑔𝓇𝑒𝒹𝒾𝑒𝓃𝓉𝓈  🎀  🍫

Pillsbury Cinnamon Rolls
1/2 cup of heavy cream or light. We used light
1/4 cup of unsalted butter. We only had salted.
1/2 cup of brown sugar. We used light brown
Cinnamon

Heat the oven to 350

Arrange your rolls  in a pan. We used a pie pan
Poor the heavy cream in the blank space between your rolls

Melt the butter and add the brown sugar and some cinnamon (don't ask. I just shook it over until I could smell it) and whisk together. Our butter was softened
Spoon the mixture over each one. 

Bake for 25 minutes.

While baking we used 1/2 cup of powered sugar, a splash of milk and a splash of vanilla. The first time I made it with vanilla that wasn't clear and the frosting was a little darker and the second time I used clear vanilla so my frosting was white.  Mix together and include whatever topping came with your cinnamon rolls. 


This was the cream cheese topping with our topping mixture

When they come out spoon the topping over the rolls and serve! SOOO good. We have made them twice since Christmas and everyone loves them.

Sunday, January 05, 2025

Tips for Communicating Your Design Vision to Your Interior Designer

 Key Takeaways:

  • Effective communication with your interior designer is crucial for translating your vision into reality.
  • Clarifying your preferences and providing specific examples can aid the design process.
  • Utilizing mood boards and detailed lists helps articulate your design goals clearly.
  • Maintaining a collaborative approach fosters a more successful design outcome.
  • Regular feedback and transparency ensure your satisfaction throughout the project.

Table of Contents:

  1. Introduction
  2. Define Your Style Preferences
  3. Use Visual Tools
  4. Effective Communication Techniques
  5. Creating a Collaborative Process
  6. Maintaining Clarity and Consistency
  7. Conclusion

Introduction

Crafting a home or workspace that reflects your style and needs is exciting. However, bringing your vision to life can sometimes feel overwhelming. Whether revamping a single room or transforming your home, professional help can make a significant difference. Communicating your design vision to your interior designer is the key to a successful outcome. This ensures that the final result aligns with your expectations and lifestyle requirements. You can collaborate effectively with your designer to create functional and aesthetically pleasing spaces by understanding and employing effective communication strategies.

Define Your Style Preferences

One of the first steps in the design process is clearly defining your style preferences. This involves reflecting on colors, patterns, textures, and styles that resonate with you. When considering this, it's helpful to think about spaces that have inspired you, whether through experiences or images.

For instance, a Carbondale interior designer can help you by discussing various design styles and identifying which elements resonate with your taste. Detailing your likes and dislikes will help your designer better understand your vision, leading to a more cohesive design outcome.

Use Visual Tools

Visual aids are invaluable when conveying your design vision. Mood boards, Pinterest boards, and even physical samples of fabrics and colors can offer your designer insight into your preferences. These tools serve as a visual reference and can make abstract concepts more concrete, bridging the gap between your ideas and the final design.

Compiling images effectively communicates elements you want to replicate or incorporate in your space. Visual tools also allow you to experiment with different styles, colors, and materials, making it easier to see what best aligns with your vision before making final decisions.

Effective Communication Techniques

To ensure your design vision is realized, it is crucial to establish clear and open lines of communication with your designer. This involves being specific about what you want and providing feedback throughout the project. Instead of broad statements like "I want a modern look," provide detailed explanations or examples, such as "I prefer sleek furniture with clean lines in a monochromatic color palette."

Additionally, scheduling regular check-ins can help keep the project aligned with your goals. These meetings provide opportunities to discuss progress, address concerns, and make any necessary adjustments. Remember, your designer is there to help and facilitate your vision, so mutual understanding is essential.

Creating a Collaborative Process

A successful design project is a collaborative endeavor between you and your interior designer. Approach the process as a partnership where ideas can be shared freely and adjustments made as necessary. Encourage open dialogue and be receptive to professional guidance and insights.

Your designer may suggest alternatives or enhancements based on their expertise, which can enrich the final design. Collaboration ensures that the space reflects your vision and is functional and expertly executed, taking full advantage of the designer's skills and creativity.

Maintaining Clarity and Consistency

It is crucial to maintain clarity and consistency throughout the design process. As ideas and inspiration evolve, it can be tempting to incorporate new elements that may not align with your original vision. To prevent this, focus on your core objectives and reference your original plan as a guiding framework.

Be clear with your designer about your budget and timeline constraints; this information is vital to the planning and execution phases. Consistency in communication and documentation, such as updated mood boards or lists, helps ensure that the final design reflects your initial vision while accommodating any necessary adaptations.

Conclusion

Communicating your design vision effectively is essential in creating a space that accurately reflects your style and meets your needs. Clear communication, defining your style preferences, using visual tools, and fostering a collaborative relationship with your interior designer can achieve a successful design outcome. By remaining involved and maintaining clarity and consistency throughout the project, you ensure that the result is beautiful and functional, enhancing your living spaces for years to come.

Reading Goals For 2025

 I love reading but have never read as much as I do since reading on Kindle only. I don't know if it is my older eyes but I find it much easier to read on my phone over the past few years. PLUS I can read in any lighting anywhere. It never seems bright enough in my house especially at night for me to read and I like being with the family even if I am not watching what they are. 

Don't get me wrong; I LOVED reading books and when Kindle was for introduced I thought No thank you. I love opening, closing and sniffing my books. Does anyone else do this or is it just me? 

In August a friend mentioned an app she uses called Bookly. I started my blog because of her many moons ago. Her suggestions have never let me down so I got Bookly. I LOVE! LOVE! LOVE! it so much that I got the yearly subscription instead of just the free app. 

Seeing all my books lined up and being able to add quotes or notes plus the monthly reading report makes me so happy.


When I started the app I had put down I wanted to read 20 minutes a day. That is easy to do so I might change it to an hour. My goal this year is to read from my current kindle list and NOT purchase any books. I have thousands of books sitting in my Kindle because Amazon offers many free books every day. 

I don't want to put down a number of books I expect to read because honestly it doesn't matter but I cannot wait to see what 2025's year in review looks like.

Free Books are available everywhere. Here is where you can find some.

If you are an Amazon Prime member you get free books every month.

Bookbub - the one I use everyday. It's free and you get pick your favorite genre's and get an email every day of what is available.

Project Gutenberg

Libby - You need a library card to join

ManyBooks

Freebooksy

Questions for you guys:

Have I missed any?

Do you prefer reading ebooks or actual books?


Monday, December 30, 2024

Year In Review 2024

 2024 - The Year in Review



1. What did you do in 2024 that you hadn't done before?
Spent the night at a hotel with my kids after not being able to get home due to the forest fires across from my home. 

2. Did anyone close to you give birth? My niece Amanda

3. Did anyone close to you die? Thankfully I don't recall losing anyone close to me. Thank you God

4. Did you travel? I have not travelled this year. The first time we didn't head to Florida in 3 years. 

5. Best thing you bought?
I bought an app Bookly for my iPhone to use when I read. It keeps track of my books and reading time. I can also save quotes. Motivates me to read. 

6. Where did most of your money go?
Probably taxes this year.

7. What do you wish you had done more of?
I wish I got together with my friend more. This seems to be something I wish for every year.

8. What do you wish you had done less of?
Watching TV. I do love it and it is what I do with Joe but not often things I want to watch. 

9. What kept you sane?
Knowing things can always be worse. I know how to TRY to keep things in check and appreciate every good moment.

10. What drove you mad?
Probably thinking about money and feeling underappreciated at work and home sometimes.

11. What made you celebrate?
Anything that allowed the 4 of us to spent anytime together.

12. What made you sad?
Not feeling as if I am doing enough for my life, my family

13. How was your birthday this year?
It was relatively quiet. I am happy when it is just acknowledged and don't require much hoopla.

14. What political issue stirred you the most this year?
The presidential election. I was annoyed that there are still so many who appear blind by what is going on in the world

15. Were you in love in 2024?
Yes with hubby and my kids

16. What would you like to have in 2024 that you didn't have this year?
Mo Money, Mo, Money, Mo Money!!! 

17. What date from 2024 will be etched in your memory and why?
Nov 10th when the kids and I had to head to the hotel due to the fires closing East Shore

18. What song will remind you of 2024?
Billy Joels we didn't start the fire because it played in my head every time I looked out the window.

19. Compared to this time last year are you happier?
I guess I was happier last year but that was because I was coming off of vacation with the family but i am torn because last year there was so much stress with work and the holiday. This year I didn't have any of that.

20. Biggest achievement for 2024
Leaving my job on a positive note!

21. Biggest disappointment 2024?
Not getting together with Teresa, Diane or Susan this year.

22. What is the one thing that would have made you more satisfied?
Going place. I stay home too much.

23. Best new person you met?
My co-monitor Sharon and bus driver Julie

24. A valuable life lesson you learned?
You don't need to cram religion down your child's throat. They will find their own way.

25. How was your health in 2024?
I guess I feel better than I have physically but my eye has become a problem. It aggressively detached in the back and has changed my vision and way more floaters

26. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I don't make resolutions.

27. What countries did you visit?
Ummm...none.

28. What would you like to have in 2025 that you lacked in 2024?
Money

29. Did you suffer hardship in 2024?
No! As challenging as it was I would not consider it hardship compared to how bad things could always be.

30. Whose behavior merited celebration?
My kids. They seem to be doing okay even though they are both home for long periods of time with no car or way to go anyplace. 

31. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
Thankfully only 1. A friend has decided that she will no longer be a friend because I didn't do something for her child. 

32. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Going to spend Christmas with my in-laws. We haven't done this in 16 years.

33. Compared to this time last year, are you:
i. happier or sadder? Happier.
ii. thinner or fatter? Fatter 
iii. richer or poorer? Richer

36. What was your favorite TV program?
The Bear

37. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
No

40. What did you want and get?
A new phone for my birthday

41. What did you want and not get?
I have all that I want

42. What was your favorite film that you watched this year?
Beetlejuice. We don't go to a lot of movies.

43. What one experience do you never want to repeat from this year?
Having my eye detach

44. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2024?
Wear what you are comfortable with

45. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
None. I don't really care but I guess Jeremy Allen White from The Bear

46. Who did you miss?
Gabrielle

40. Quote that sums up your year:
It can always be worse.

41. Was 2024 a good year for you?
Yes

42. What was your favorite moment of the year?
Playing Uno with my nieces, kids and Joe

43. What was your least favorite moment of the year?
My eye which is still a problem

44. Where were you when 2024 began?
At home with my family

45. Who were you with?
My husband and my kids

46. Do you have a new year's resolution for 2025?
Oh hell no, who has time for that?

47. What was your favorite month of 2024?
December. Christmas. The house decorated and seeing my in-laws

48. What was your favorite song in 2024?
Wildflower by Billie Eilish

49. What was your favorite record from 2024?
Hit Me Hard And Soft

50. How many concerts did you see in 2024? 2
Metallica and Poison cover bands

51. Did you drink a lot of alcohol in 2024?
No! I am not a drinker

52. Did you do a lot of drugs in 2024?
Nope I don't do drugs. However I did some over the counter Advil more often than usual this year. 

53. How many people did you sleep with in 2024?
One unless you count the times I slept with Skye while pet sitting.

54. Did you do anything you are ashamed of this year?
No

55. What was the worst lie someone told you in 2024?
If someone did tell me one..I am unaware of it.

56. Did you treat somebody badly in 2024?
Not to my knowledge

57. Did somebody treat you badly in 2024?
No

58. What was your most embarrassing moment of 2024?
I am not embarrassed easily

59. If you could go back in time to any moment of 2024 and change something, what would it be?
Not a thing. Everything happens for a reason.

60. What are you most looking forward to in 2025?
Spending time with my family. More quiet time with my husband, my kids and friends.

Saturday, December 28, 2024

Home Plumbing Maintenance Tips: Ensuring Smooth Flow All Year Round

 

Key Takeaways

  • Regular maintenance of plumbing systems can prevent costly repairs.
  • Being proactive about plumbing upkeep enhances home safety and water conservation.

Understanding the Basics of Your Home Plumbing System

Every home relies on a functional plumbing system to ensure a seamless flow of clean water and efficiently remove waste. Understanding the basic layout of your home's plumbing system, which includes pipes, valves, and various fixtures, is essential. This knowledge empowers homeowners to quickly identify and address minor issues before they escalate into costly repairs. For example, if you know where your water main is located, you can swiftly shut it off during a leak, preventing further damage. If you encounter issues beyond your expertise, seeking professional assistance from Afford A Rooter Plumbing can offer peace of mind and expert solutions.

Having foundational knowledge about your plumbing system also helps during emergencies when time is of the essence. For instance, knowing how to turn off water supply lines and drain valves can prevent water damage and save you from unnecessary hassle and expense.

Routine Plumbing Inspections and Why They Matter

Conducting routine plumbing inspections is a crucial element of home maintenance that should always be noticed. These inspections should be carried out at least once a year. By doing so, homeowners can identify issues early and tackle them before they become significant problems. Start by systematically checking all visible pipes for any signs of leaks or corrosion. Pay close attention to areas under sinks and behind cabinets where problems go unnoticed.

In addition to checking for leaks, inspect common areas like the kitchen and bathroom where plumbing fixtures are used frequently. Check around faucets, showerheads, and toilets for leaks or water pooling. Spotting issues early, such as rust or residue on pipes or fixtures, could point to potential leaks or pressure problems that require attention.

Advanced Maintenance and When to Call a Professional

While DIY maintenance covers many basic tasks, some plumbing issues require professional intervention. Persistent low water pressure throughout the house, frequent clogging, or unexplained spikes in the water bill suggest more complex problems. Identifying these issues early is crucial. Selecting a skilled and reliable professional is essential—seek recommendations, read reviews, and check credentials before choosing.

Seasonal Plumbing Tips

As seasons change, so do the plumbing challenges homeowners face. Winter, in particular, poses the threat of frozen pipes. To prevent freezing and potential bursting, insulate exposed pipes. Disconnect and store outdoor hoses to prevent trapped water from freezing. Additionally, ensure indoor plumbing is prepared for colder temperatures by keeping heating consistent and opening cabinets to allow warm air to circulate pipes.

Implementing Water Conservation Techniques

Water conservation is an eco-friendly choice and can lead to significant savings on utility bills. Implementing small changes can have a substantial impact. Consider installing water-saving fixtures like low-flow showerheads and dual-flush toilets. These can reduce water usage without compromising on comfort. For a comprehensive list of water conservation ideas, consult resources like the Family Handyman's routine maintenance checklist, which offers practical tips for conserving water.

Innovative Plumbing Technologies for the Modern Home

With the rise of smart home technologies, plumbing systems are also benefiting from technological advancements. Smart plumbing solutions like leak detectors provide instant alerts to help you manage leaks in real time, preventing water wastage and avoiding costly repairs. Smart faucets and shower systems also track usage patterns, helping you understand consumption and make informed decisions to conserve water. To discover more about integrating these smart technologies, explore articles and updates on TechCrunchthat delve into the latest innovations.

Keeping Plumbing Safety a Priority

Beyond maintenance, ensuring the safety of your plumbing system is paramount. In an emergency, all household members should know how to quickly shut off the main water lines to prevent significant flooding. Implement simple safety measures, such as installing anti-scald devices on faucets and securing moving parts that could pose risks, especially in homes with young children. Regularly educating your family on these safety practices can significantly reduce the risk of accidents and ensure a secure living environment.