Unplugging for a Richer Life: Simple Joys Without the Screen

I have had this blog for a loooong time. A really long time. It has taken me from my kids being babies to them being in college and I love reading my old posts. It brings up so many lovely memories of my early mommy years. 

I don’t spent a lot of time online anymore and make a conscious effort to step away because I can hear my soul whispering, “Hey, lady, let’s step away from the screen and soak up some real life for a change.” So, I’ve been experimenting with ways to enrich my days without relying on tech, and oh my gosh, it’s been a game-changer. Here are some of my favorite little escapes maybe they’ll spark something for you too!

1. Get Lost in a Real, Crinkly-Paged Book or a Book on your Kindle

There’s something magical about holding an actual book you know, the kind that smells faintly of paper and possibility? I’ve been curling up with a mug of green tea and diving into novels I’ve been meaning to read forever. As I’ve gotten older it is much easier to read on my Kindle. I can change the font and read in a dim room so I can hang out with my husband while he watches TV. 

There are so many books I want to read.  Pick something that calls to you and let it sweep you away. Right now I am reading Water Under The Bridge by Britney King

2. Dig Into a Hands-On Hobby

I’ve always been the type to admire crafty people, but lately I decided I will start doing some of the Pins I have saved on Pinterest or posts on Instagram. Mostly I started messing around with paper crafts trying to use a lot of the supplies I have been hoarding for years. I had to let go of trying to be as good as the people I follow. They are experts in what they do after learning their craft and I may never get as good as I like but I learn with every spread I do. You just keep going, and somehow it’s relaxing and exciting. Whatever you are into go for it. Try your best, watch videos, knitting, gardening, baking bread or whatever it is, find something that makes you excited and you love.

3. Wander Outside 

Okay, I’ll admit I’m guilty of letting my phone lead me everywhere. But the other day, I left it at home and just drove. Then I pulled over and just walked through a small town I had never visited before. No GPS, no playlist, just me and the world. I ended up noticing things I’d never seen before like tiny wildflowers sprouting up, beautiful homes, lots of deer, and the way the trees sound when the wind rustles through them. It’s freeing to roam without a destination or a screen telling you where to turn. Try it, even if it’s just around your block. Let your feet and your curiosity guide you.

4. Write It Out

Journaling’s been my go to for years. I have many journals but 4 years ago I really started to try to create some of the journals I follow. I grab cute little notebooks, journals, scrapbooks, or pieces of paper and I write it down. I scribble, tape many scraps of notes into my journals about my dreams, random thoughts, even silly doodles. There is just something about the scratch of a pen that feels so personal. I love pouring a little piece of myself onto the page knowing I can reread them whenever I want. Give it a whirl; you might surprise yourself with what comes up.

5. Cook Something

I’m no chef, but there’s this quiet joy in chopping veggies, stirring a pot, and letting a recipe unfold. Last weekend, I made baked Mac and Cheese, Meatballs and sauce, chicken tenders, chicken cutlets and a bunch of roasted veggies so that the upcoming week wouldn't be a hassle as I worked my 3 jobs. I can come home from work and heat something up, my husband can take what he wants and my son has lunch and dinner for a few days. I love knowing I am feeding them and it was all made with love.  It's nothing fancy, just fresh ingredients and a little patience. The smell filled my kitchen, and I felt so accomplished.  

March Magic: Fun, Romantic, and Sweet Things to Do

Hello! We are in our second week of March and man that time change is hitting me or it could be the many jobs or the dog sitting gigs but hey a day above ground is a good day right because the alternative sucks. 

It’s time to start shaking off winter’s chill and sprinkling some fun and sweetness into our busy lives. Whether you’re stealing moments for yourself,  with your partner, or making memories with your little ones, I’ve got a handful of fun, family-friendly ideas to make this month extra special. Let’s dive in!

1. Cozy Up for a “Mommy-and-Me” Picnic

March weather can be a tease! One day crisp and sunny but the next cold again so grab a blanket, pack some snacks (goldfish crackers and chocolate-dipped strawberries, etc), and head outside for some much needed Vitamin D. Find a patch of grass or even your backyard, and let smiles lose as you snack and watch the clouds. Bonus romance tip: Sneak in a picnic date with your partner after the kids are asleep—twinkle lights and a thermos of hot cocoa or a bottle of wine and two glasses can make it spicy!

2. Flower Hunt 

Spring’s first blooms are peeking out, and there’s nothing sweeter than turning it into a family adventure. Grab your little explorers and hunt for flowers in the park. Make it a game! Whoever spots the most wins. For the romantic vibe, slip one of those flowers into your hair  and let your partner know later you will be in full bloom and ripe for picking 🤪

3. Movie Night: Kid Edition and Couple’s Encore

As a mommy, you’re probably no stranger to Paw Patrol marathons, but let’s make it fun for everyone. Pop some popcorn, pile on the couch with blankets, and let the kids pick their fave movie. Once they’re tucked in for the night switch gears and queue up a rom-com or action flick with your love, dim the lights, and sip something warm (or bubbly!). Two movie nights, one cozy evening. You’re winning at life! 

4. Snow Angels and Sweet Kisses

If March throws a late snow your way (hello, unpredictable weather!), don’t groan play! Bundle up the kids and play in the snow. Laughing with your kids is the ultimate heart-warmer. Then, when your partner is around ask them to join you and steal a quick kiss while the snowflakes fall. Cold noses, warm hearts. What’s more romantic than that?

5. Pamper Yourself (Because You Deserve It!)

Being a woman and a mommy means you’re a superhero 24/7, so carve out a little “me time” this month. Run a bubble bath after bedtime, light a candle, grab a book or some wine or your favorite playlist and breathe! Feeling flirty? Invite your partner to join you for a spa night with face masks and foot rubs included.

A Mom's Heartfelt Call to Action for Outdoor Adventures

It’s hard to believe we’re already a few days into March! With promises of warmer weather and the scent of spring in the air, my heart both swells with hope and a little bit of worry. As a mom, I often find myself wrestling with a familiar concern: my kids are spending far too much time in the house. They don't drive yet, do online college and this generation just seems less engaged with others.

This winter felt especially long, and I get it—after a season of hibernation, who wouldn’t want to cozy up with their favorite games or binge-watch a series? But as the daylight hours grow longer and the flowers begin to peek out from beneath the frost, I can’t help but feel the urgency to encourage my kids to step outside their comfort zone and breathe in the fresh air, and to experience life beyond the four walls of our home.

So, how can we embrace the new month and motivate our kids to trade in their cozy indoor corners for the great outdoors? So whether you have big or little kids, here are a few ideas that might just help us all dive deeper into March’s possibilities:

1. Embrace the Great Outdoors:
March can be a transitional month, where winter reluctantly lets go and spring eagerly approaches. Let’s bundle up and head out for nature walks! A simple stroll around the neighborhood or a trip to a nearby park can bring joy and excitement. Let them ride bikes, kick a soccer ball, or simply run freely—how liberating is that?

2. Organize Playdates:
As a mom, I know just how challenging it can be to navigate our kids' busy schedules (and our own!). But let’s be proactive. Take the initiative to arrange playdates with their school friends or neighborhood buddies. Getting kids together allows them to socialize, laugh, and create bonds while enjoying some physical activity. A day at the park, skate rink, or bowling alley can rejuvenate friendships and help them experience the joys of camaraderie.

3. Start a Family Activity Day:
Why not dedicate a weekend day this month to family fun? Plan a hike, have a picnic, or try your hand at geocaching. Involve your kids in the planning—let them pick from a list of outings! Not only will these adventures help my kids forge memories, but it’ll also reinforce our family bonds. Who could resist a day of laughter and fresh air together?

4. Explore Local Events:
March often comes with unique local events. From spring festivals to outdoor markets, it’s worth checking out the happenings in our community. These events not only provide an opportunity for us to mingle with neighbors but also expose our kids to new experiences, cultures, and hobbies. Plus, it’s another adorable excuse to get everyone dressed up and out of the house!

5. Set Screen Time Limits:
As much as I want my kids to explore their interests, I know that moderating screen time is essential. We recently instituted "no screens until after dinner" on certain days, and while there was resistance initially, it has been a game-changer. Instead, they have been diving into board games, reading books, and engaging in creative projects.

6. Lead by Example:
Lastly, I’ve realized that kids often take cues from us parents. If they see us taking walks, gardening, or attending events, they’ll be more likely to follow suit. So, let’s put our phones down, lace up our walking shoes, and show them the beauty that lies beyond the living room couch.

The world is vast, colorful, and full of life. This March, let's prioritize experiences over screens, nurturing our kids’ hearts to explore, learn, and connect in ways that truly matter. It won't always be easy—there will be grumbles and protests—but I know the rewards will be worth it. Here’s to embracing the joys of life outside the walls of home, and nurturing a love for adventure in our precious little ones!

Happy March, everyone! Let’s make this a month of memorable experiences together.

Warmly,
A Hopeful Mama

A Reflection on Losing a Spouse: Inspired by Dolly Parton’s Loss

The recent passing of Carl Thomas Dean, Dolly Parton’s husband of nearly 60 years, has left a quiet ache in the hearts of many. Losing my spouse is one of the scariest things that weighs heavy on my. Carl, was Dolly’s steadfast partner since they met outside a Nashville laundromat in 1964. Their marriage a beautiful tapestry woven with humor, mutual respect, and simple joys like cooking together or taking RV trips stood as a testament to enduring love. As Dolly once said, “We’re the perfect partners. We both have a great sense of humor… We lucked up, let’s put it that way.” In light of this loss, we’re reminded of the profound and deeply personal experience of losing a spouse a journey that reshapes life in ways words can scarcely capture.

I have been a huge fan of Dolly Parton since the age of 14. I did the whole Columbia House records and bought a Dolly record when we I had money. Over the past day my heart has hurt for her as if I really know her. But we don’t have to know someone to feel intense grief for what they are going through. 

The Depth of the Loss

Losing a spouse after decades together is more than losing a partner; it’s losing a piece of yourself. It’s the absence of shared routines the morning coffee, the inside jokes no one else understands, the quiet presence that fills a room. For Dolly and Carl, nearly six decades built a history of love and companionship that became a cornerstone of her life. When that cornerstone shifts, the ground beneath feels unsteady. This grief is universal yet unique each person’s heart carries its own rhythm of sorrow. 

There’s no roadmap for grief, no timeline to follow. Some days, the memories bring warmth; others, they sting. And that’s okay. The process is yours alone whether it takes weeks, months, or years to find footing again. What matters is giving yourself permission to feel it all. Lean on those who love you people like your friends who listen without judgment, family who sit with you in silence, a community that feels for you in your pain. If the weight feels too heavy, professional support counselors or therapists can offer a steady hand through the storm. You don’t have to carry it alone.

Honoring Their Memory

In the quiet after loss, there’s solace in keeping their spirit close. For some, it’s sharing stories.  For others, it’s holding onto keepsakes: a worn jacket, a handwritten note, a song that echoes their laugh. Continuing traditions like cooking their favorite meal or visiting a place you both loved can feel like a bridge between past and present. Dolly, with her music and the unwavering support of her fans, may find Carl’s strength living on in her melodies.

Finding Hope Amid Heartbreak

The truth is, the pain of losing a spouse never fully fades it becomes a part of you. But life, stubborn and resilient, has a way of blooming again. Joy creeps in through small cracks: a sunrise that catches your eye, a laugh that surprises you, a new purpose that stirs your soul. Dolly Parton’s grace in this moment her quiet strength and unshakable spirit shines as a beacon for anyone walking this path. She reminds us that even in the deepest sorrow, there’s room for hope. Love doesn’t end; it transforms.

To those who’ve lost a spouse, whether recently or long ago, know this: you’re not alone. The road is hard, but it’s one countless others have tread before you. In Carl and Dolly’s story, we see a love that spanned decades and though he’s gone, that love endures in every note she sings, every memory she holds. Take it one breath at a time. You’re stronger than you know.

This Mama’s Love Letter to 1923: Why You Need This Show in Your Life

My husband and I don’t agree on many shows but we are obsessed with Yellowstone and NOW 1923. 

When the kids go to their room for the night we put something on for us. It’s a time with no bills to pay, chores to handle or kid conversation. Just us and the TV for approximately two hours before bed. We are both exhausted, a little overwhelmed, and desperate for something to take us away. 

We stumbled across 1923 a few months ago and oh my goodness, let me tell you it’s like a warm hug and a wild ride all rolled into one. Harrison Ford, Helen Mirren and sexy Brandon Sklenar as Spencer. I’ve got to share this with you because I think you’ll love it as much as I do! It takes place in Montana which is oddly a place we talked about a lot when we were dating. 

So, what is 1923? It’s this beautiful Yellowstone prequel about the Dutton family back in the 1920s, fighting to protect their land and each other through some seriously tough times. Think strong woman, tough men, and kids growing up way too fast—it’s raw, real, and so full of heart. I’m not here to spoil anything (promise!), but I will say it’s one of those shows that sticks with you long after the credits roll.

As a mom, I couldn’t stop thinking about Cara Dutton. She’s this fierce woman holding her family together through heartbreak, danger, and chaos—sound familiar? It hit me hard: isn’t that what we do every day? Wipe tears, make dinner, keep the world spinning for our family no matter what’s thrown at us? Watching her strength reminds me of many of my friends as well as myself.  It feels like a little nod from the universe saying, “You’ve got this, mama.” I don’t know about you, but I could use that kind of encouragement some days! Especially THESE days. 

Now, let’s talk about why this show is worth your precious time. The love stories? They’ll melt your heart quiet, tender moments that make you believe in forever. The way they fight for their kids? It’s like watching our own battles play out in cowboy boots and wide-open plains. And the scenery is breathtaking! Every episode feels like a mini-vacation to Montana. I’ve been curling up with a cozy blanket and a cup of tea, and it’s become my little reward at the end of the day. 

I know what some of you might be thinking: “Is it too intense for my tired mama brain?” Fair question! Yes, there’s some grit it’s the wild west, after all but it’s not mindless chaos. It’s about family, survival, and love, and it’s so beautifully done. Plus, it’s only 8 episodes, so it’s not one of those endless series. It’s just the right length to sneak in after the kids are asleep or during a rare quiet afternoon.

So grab your coffee (or wine no judgment!), snuggle up, and give 1923 a try. You deserve this little getaway—it’s like a love letter to resilience, and I promise it’ll speak to your heart. The men really know how to love their woman. If your kids are old enough, maybe even make it a family night and talk about grit and grace after. I’d love to hear what you think. Leave me a comment or a message, because I’m dying to chat about it!

Taking Care of Myself: A Journey of Self-Care and Daily Prayer

In a world that often feels chaotic and overwhelming, taking care of ourselves can sometimes fall by the wayside. Life presents us with countless challenges and responsibilities that can easily consume our time, energy, and spirit. In this whirlwind, I’ve come to realize the importance of carving out space for self-care and, more importantly, turning to prayer daily. This journey is one of love, honesty, and renewal, and of reconnecting with the essence of who I am.

The Importance of Self-Care

Self-care isn’t just a buzzword; it’s essential for our well-being. Too often, we believe taking care of ourselves as selfishness, as if pausing to nurture our spirits negates our responsibilities. However, I’ve learned that self-care is vital. It's about acknowledging the unique needs of our hearts and minds and giving ourselves permission to meet them.

When I started making self-care a priority, I began to notice profound changes in my life. Simple acts like taking long walks in nature, reading a good book, or enjoying a warm cup of tea allowed me to reconnect with my inner self. I discovered that self-care is not a luxury but a necessity. A way to rejuvenate my spirit and recharge my mind.

The Power of Prayer

Alongside self-care, incorporating daily prayer has transformed my journey. Prayer is my anchor, my safe haven, a moment where I can pause and reflect on my life. In those quiet moments of prayer, I find peace and clarity. It often brings me to tears. It is a time for me to express gratitude for the blessings in my life and to seek guidance through the challenges I face.

Each day, I set aside a few moments, whether in the morning before my busy day but especially at the end of the day when I am finally laying in bed and the time is mine and God's! . The act of praying helps me to center my thoughts, reminding me of my purpose and the importance of nurturing my soul. Prayer has become the conversation I look most forward to. It nourishes me and renews my spirit.

The Intersection of Self-Care and Prayer

What I have come to love about self-care and prayer is how beautifully they compliment each other. When I engage in self-care, I create a physical and emotional space that invites prayer into my life and when I pray, I strengthen my commitment to God.

I find that dedicating time to self-care allows me to approach prayer with an open heart. When I feel grounded and balanced, my prayers are more intentional and heartfelt. I find strength, wisdom, and the courage to face my challenges. Prayer becomes my companion, guiding me.

A Call to Action

If you’re finding it difficult to prioritize yourself amidst life’s demands, I urge you to take that first step. Start small set aside even just a few minutes each day for self-care and prayer. Give yourself permission to be still, to breathe, and to listen. We as woman mostly feel such guilt when we take a moment for ourself. I have had so much trouble with allowing myself to just be in the moment without feeling as if I should be doing something for someone else or some chore that needs to be finalized. Create a ritual that feels comforting and nurturing, whether it's lighting a candle, journaling your thoughts, or simply sitting in quiet reflection.

Know that taking care of yourself is not a selfish act but a profound way to honor the gift of life. As we love and nurture ourselves, we become better equipped to spread love and kindness to those around us.

Here’s to embracing the journey of self-care and daily prayer with an open heart. May we find moments of peace and solace amidst our busy lives, allowing ourselves the grace to just be. Together, let’s commit to nurturing our spirits, for when we take care of ourselves, we fill our cups and, in turn, empower ourselves to uplift others in our beautiful, interconnected journey of life.

Welcome March: Renewal and Adventure

Found on Facebook. Photo by Brooklyn 

As we step into the first few days of March, there's a palpable shift in the air. The winter chill begins to wane, daffodils and tulips will bravely push through the soil, and the world around us starts to buzz with the promise of renewal. March is not just a bridge to spring; it’s an invitation to shake off those winter cobwebs and embrace new our beginnings. Here are some ideas to help you welcome this vibrant month with open arms.

1. Rediscover Nature

With the earth slowly waking from its winter slumber, March is the perfect time to reconnect with nature. Take a stroll in your local park, explore a nearby trail, or simply sit outdoors with a good book. Notice the subtle changes happening around you—the budding trees, the returning birds, and the warmer sun. Embracing nature can lift your spirits and inspire creativity as you soak in the fresh air and beauty of the world.

2. Start a Spring Cleaning Ritual

March marks the perfect moment to clear out the clutter that may have built up during the colder months. Use this time to spring-clean your home and your mind. Organize a closet, declutter your workspace, or tidy up your digital files. As you create a more organized environment, you may find a sense of clarity that helps you enter the new season with a refreshed perspective.

3. Set New Intentions

With fresh beginnings come new opportunities. March is the ideal time to take stock of your goals and intentions. Did you make New Year's Resolutions this year. I don't do that but I make mental notes about what I would like to do every year. This month is a great time to revisit what you want to achieve, whether it’s personal growth, health, or learning a new skill. Write down your intentions and make a plan to take actionable steps towards them. Visualizing where you want to be can provide the motivation needed to stay on course.

4. Celebrate International Women’s Day

March 8th brings International Women’s Day, a day dedicated to celebrating the achievements of women and advocating for gender equality. Take the time to honor the women in your life mothers, sisters, friends, and teachers who have played a pivotal role in your story. Consider supporting women-owned businesses or participating in local events that promote women’s empowerment and most importantly if you are a woman, support yourself!

5. Get Involved in Community Events

March is often filled with various events celebrating culture, art, and community. I cannot wait to see more things to do near me. It’s a great opportunity to get involved, whether it’s attending a local festival, joining a community clean-up, or volunteering at a charity. Engaging with your community not only helps others but also fosters a sense of belonging and connection.

6. Plant the Seeds for Your Garden

While March can still be unpredictable weather-wise, it's also a time to start thinking about gardens. With the cost of vegetables, my daughter and I talk about it all the time. Whether you have a backyard garden or just a few pots on your balcony, now is the time to start planning. Consider what you want to plant this year and get your seeds ready. Watching things grow and nurturing life brings both joy and fulfillment.

7. Create a Seasonal Bucket List

With the sights and sounds of spring around the corner, why not create a seasonal bucket list? Write down activities you want to try during March and beyond—whether it’s hiking a new trail, attending a concert, or trying out new recipes with seasonal ingredients. Having a list keeps you motivated and excited about the little adventures that lie ahead.

Embrace the Power of Change

The first days of March are a gentle reminder that change is not only possible but invigorating. It’s a time to embrace the transition from the cold of winter to the warmth of spring. By taking intentional steps to engage with nature, declutter, foster community, and celebrate the world around us, we can fully embrace all that March has to offer. So, take a deep breath, let go of the winter blues, and step boldly into this beautiful new month! I can't wait to say goodbye to winter this year!

Understanding Gluteal Tendinopathy: The Importance of Stretching and Rehabilitation

I have suffered from Gluteal tendinopathy for over 10 years. There have been days were I have cried from the pain and I figured this was it for me. This would be my life. However, I have found things that work and want to share with you what works for me.

Gluteal Tendinopathy is often characterized by pain and discomfort in the lateral hip region. Often it is misdiagnosed as Sciatica which is what I was treated for the past 7 years. This ailment arises when the tendons that attach the gluteal muscles to the hip become irritated or degenerated due to overuse, injury, or improper biomechanics. While treatment typically involves rest, modifications of activity, and strengthening exercises, incorporating stretching into your rehabilitation regimen is crucial for effective recovery and injury prevention.

What is Gluteal Tendinopathy?

Gluteal tendinopathy primarily affects the gluteus medius and gluteus minimus muscles, pain radiates for the leg or is focused in the hips or lower back often excruciating. It felt like I was being zapped. The pain level was like a 15 and it would be days of it!

Symptoms may include:

• Pain on the outer side of the hip
• Discomfort when lying on the affected side
• Pain during activities such as climbing stairs or standing up from a seated position

The condition is often exacerbated by certain movements, repetitive activities, and poor hip mechanics.

The Role of Stretching

Stretching is a vital component of managing gluteal tendinopathy. It helps maintain flexibility in the surrounding muscles, reduces tension, and can support overall hip function. Here’s how stretching contributes to recovery:

1. Increases Flexibility: Tight muscles can pull on tendons, exacerbating pain and instability. Stretching the gluteal region, hips, and surrounding muscle groups promotes flexibility and may help alleviate tension on the tendons.

2. Improves Blood Flow: Stretching increases blood circulation to the muscles and tendons, aiding in healing and reducing inflammation.

3. Enhances Range of Motion: A well-stretched muscle can move through a fuller range of motion, which is crucial for both daily activities and athletic performance.

4. Prevents Future Injuries: Incorporating regular stretching into your routine can help maintain optimal muscle length and balance, reducing the risk of re-injury to the symptomatic area.

Effective Stretches for Gluteal Tendinopathy

When managing gluteal tendinopathy, focusing on gentle stretching exercises is key. Here are a few that can aid in recovery:

1. Standing Figure Four Stretch:

   • Stand tall and cross your right ankle over your left knee.
   • Slowly bend your left knee and sit back as if sitting in a chair.
   • Hold for 20-30 seconds, then switch sides.

2. Seated Forward Fold:

   • Sit on the floor with legs extended in front of you.
   • Reach towards your toes, keeping your back straight, until you feel a gentle stretch in the hamstrings and glutes.
   • Hold for 20-30 seconds.

3. Lying Piriformis Stretch:

   • Lie on your back and cross your right ankle over your left knee.
   • Gently pull your left thigh towards your chest until you feel a stretch in the right glute.
   • Hold for 20-30 seconds before switching legs.

4. Hip Flexor Stretch:

• Kneel on one knee with the other foot in front, making a 90-degree angle.
• Shift your weight forward while keeping your back straight to stretch the hip flexors.
• Hold for 20-30 seconds and switch sides.
5. I also take Vitamins and Minerals and use fflexible ice packs all the time.

I take Osteo Gest from Doctor's Pride Magnesium with Bisglycinate and Curcumin Turmeric Supplements - None of these are sponsored but they work for me. 

While gluteal tendinopathy can be a painful and frustrating condition, understanding its underlying causes and incorporating targeted stretching into your rehabilitation plan can significantly enhance recovery. Always consult with a healthcare professional or physical therapist to create an individualized plan that addresses your specific needs and ensures proper technique.

Embrace the power of stretching, and take steps toward a pain-free, active lifestyle!

My Green Eyed Loafer

This is my cat Sage, my grey tabby with the most mesmerizing green eyes! This little furball wakes me before my alarm, eats the other cats food and avoids pets for too long unless you are my daughter.  Those emerald peepers are always watching, probably plotting her next adventure—or just waiting for a treat.

Title: Embracing the Journey: Learning to Finally Read the Bible

As a mother in her late 50s, I find myself at a fascinating crossroads in life. With my children grown or nearly there, I have more time to reflect on my own personal goals and desires. One of those long-held dreams has always been to read the Bible. It’s a book I’ve been curious about for years. The bible is filled with stories, lessons, and wisdom that I am trying to gather for myself. However, I often felt overwhelmed, unsure of where to start. I read novels so I thought that I would start on page 1 and go. I mean how hard can it be? I have started and stopped over the past 25 years but now, I finally feel ready to embark on this journey, and I want to share my experience with others who may be in a similar situation.

A Gentle Push from Life Experience

Getting closer to entering my 60s has brought with it a unique blend of clarity and contemplation. As I've navigated various seasons of motherhood—intense sleepless nights with toddlers, the struggles of raising teenagers, and the adjustments to adult children venturing into the world—I've sought guidance and comfort from many places. Yet, the Bible always seemed like a profound well of wisdom I had yet to tap.

It was a gentle nudge from my sister, who moved to Florida and started her own journey of reading the Bible and joining a church that inspired me to take the plunge.

Setting Realistic Goals

• Decide what you want to achieve by reading the Bible. Whether it’s daily inspiration, theological understanding, or personal growth, having specific goals can guide your reading.

To make this dream a reality, I needed to create a plan that felt doable and enjoyable, one that fit into my busy life as a mom and a someone with a job. Thus, I set realistic goals. Instead of trying to read the Bible cover to cover—which felt overwhelming—I decided to focus on one chapter a day, starting with the New Testament. The Gospels would allow me to dive into the life of Jesus, sharing his teachings and stories that have impacted countless lives.

Finding the Right Resources

• Select a Bible translation that is accessible and resonates with you. Popular options include the New International Version (NIV), English Standard Version (ESV), New Living Translation (NLT), or The Message (MSG) for more contemporary language.

Being a visual learner, I sought out resources to help guide me. I also downloaded an app that read to me as I followed along where I could highlight passages and break down each book. I also re-read the next day each passage focusing on the message.

There are so many Bible apps that are particularly helpful. They each offer a range of reading plans and daily reminders, making it easier to stay accountable and connected. Best of all, I discovered the option to read in different translations, which has opened up new understandings of familiar verses.

Creating a Sacred Space and Time

• Develop a structured plan to help you work through the text. You might:
  • Read a specific number of chapters or verses each day.
  • Follow a chronological reading plan that arranges the text in the order events occurred.
  • Focus on specific books (e.g., the Gospel of John, Psalms, etc.) or themes (love, faith, justice).

Another key element I adopted was creating my own sacred space for this journey. I set a time every day to open the app and my bible. If I don't do it during my break at work and I am home I light a candle and sip my favorite tea as I settle into reading. Having this dedicated time often in the early mornings or the end of the night when the house is quiet helps me focus, reflect, and truly engage with the words.

Embracing Reflection and Community

• If you’re new to the Bible, consider starting with the New Testament, especially with the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John) or the book of Psalms for poetry and prayers.

Reading the Bible isn’t just about the words on the page; it’s about reflection and application in my life. As I read, I take notes in my journal. I write down questions, insights, and even prayers that arise from my reading. This practice deepens my understanding and allows me to establish a personal connection with the text.

I hope to reach out to a local Bible study group, with like minded woman who I hope to read with and dive deeper into the message for a more enriching experience. Sharing thoughts and discussing interpretations with others can provide a whole new perspective and inspire you to really embrace and understand the message.

Growing and Evolving

As I embark on this journey, I realize that learning to read the Bible isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress and growth. Some days, I’m filled with inspiration, while others may leave me with more questions than answers. However, that’s part of the beauty of the process. It’s a continual journey of discovery, allowing me to learn more about myself, my faith, and my connection to the world around me.

Conclusion: A Lifelong Adventure

For anyone, especially those like me in their 50s, who may have longed to read the Bible but haven’t taken the leap, I encourage you to embrace the journey. It’s never too late to begin, and you don’t have to do it alone. Take small, manageable steps; set a schedule, find resources that resonate with you, create a sacred space, and open yourself up to a community of fellow learners.

As I navigate this new chapter, I’m excited to uncover the timeless wisdom within the pages of the Bible. It’s a journey that promises to be as rewarding as it is enlightening, a lifelong conversation filled with love, grace, and understanding.

• Before and after reading, take a moment to pray. Seek clarity and guidance as you engage with the text, asking for insights that apply to your life.

So, grab your Bible, a cozy blanket, and a cup of tea. Let’s embark on this journey together, one book at a time!